A Kid Like Jake
On the eve of kindergarten admissions in New York, Alex and Greg Wheeler hope their four year old Jake will shine. The preschool director suggests they highlight Jake's gender fluid behavior to stand out in a crowded field. As the parents try to balance pride with practicality, they confront... Read more
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About A Kid Like Jake
On the eve of kindergarten admissions in New York, Alex and Greg Wheeler hope their four year old Jake will shine. The preschool director suggests they highlight Jake's gender fluid behavior to stand out in a crowded field. As the parents try to balance pride with practicality, they confront questions about how far to push him toward the traits that schools prize. The conversations at home reveal not only their hopes for Jake's future, but also tensions between them about who he should be and how much they must compromise. The story tracks a family negotiating identity, anxiety, and the stubborn love that keeps them listening to one another despite their worries and the risk of heartbreak for their son.
Directed by Silas Howard, the film adapts Daniel Pearle's stage play for the screen. The project centers on a middle class family facing school choices and parental fears, bringing intimate conversations to the surface with warmth and quiet realism today.
The film had a limited release and did not post a widely reported worldwide gross, reflecting its niche appeal and festival driven rollout rather than a wide scale commercial push. It found viewers through festival screenings and streaming in total.
The cultural conversation around gender identity and school admission pressure threads through the film, showing how a child may express themselves while parents weigh safety, acceptance, and possibility. It contributed to discussions around parenting choices and the visibility of gender expansive kids in media across families and classrooms everywhere today.
Critics highlighted the film's restrained performances and its focus on real world dilemmas rather than sensationalism. The core themes center on parental love, the cost of protecting a child, and the tensions between school expectations and a child's right to self expression within households, schools, and communities for families everywhere.
Details
- Release Date
- June 01, 2018
- Runtime
- 1h 32m
- Rating
- R
- User Ratings
- 151 votes
- Type
- Movie
- Genres
- Drama
- Country
- United States
- Studio
- Burn Later Productions +4 more
- External Links
- View on IMDB
Official Trailer
Cast
Claire Danes
Alex Wheeler
Jim Parsons
Greg Wheeler
Octavia Spencer
Judy
Priyanka Chopra Jonas
Amal
Ann Dowd
Catherine
Amy Landecker
Sandra
Leo James Davis
Jake Wheeler
Julia Chan
Michelle
Lee Aaron Rosen
Tom Hedwall
Kelly Deadmon
Cynthia Hedwall
Director: Silas Howard
Written by: Daniel Pearle