He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You weaves together the romantic lives of several friends and acquaintances in Baltimore, each dealing with the awkward, frustrating parts of dating. Gigi clings to the idea that a promise to call should mean something, while Alex tells her to stop sitting by the phone. Beth expects a ring after years with Neil, who’s content with their routine. Janine worries about Ben’s behavior, and Anna juggles attention from a married man and the steady but spark-free Conor. Mary has many admirers in her social circle but still wants one who is genuinely attracted to her. The film follows how misread signals, assumptions and personal expectations shape choices and relationships without revealing its final turns.

Directed by Ken Kwapis, the screenplay was written by Abby Kohn and Marc Silverstein, and the project drew on material associated with Greg Behrendt. The ensemble cast includes Ginnifer Goodwin, Justin Long, Jennifer Aniston, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Connelly.

The movie was a commercial success, buoyed by its recognizable cast and broad appeal. Its accessible take on modern dating made it popular with mainstream audiences and helped it earn strong box office returns relative to its genre.

The title entered pop culture as a shorthand for a blunt truth about romantic interest, and lines from the film were often quoted in conversations about dating. Its ensemble format and interlocking storylines influenced other relationship comedies in the late 2000s and kept the movie visible in media discussions about modern romance.

Critical reaction was mixed to positive, reflected in an average user vote around 6.6 out of 10. Reviewers praised the chemistry among the actors and moments of genuine humor, while some critics found the multiple plots uneven. Central themes include miscommunication, differing expectations around commitment, and how people cope with rejection and desire.