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It's Not You, It's Me

Movie 2004 1h 45m 6.3 /10
Directed by Juan Taratuto

Javier is a 30-year-old surgeon who moonlights as a DJ and thinks he's ready to settle down. He and his girlfriend María plan to get married and start a new life in the United States, with María moving ahead to make contacts while Javier finishes things in Argentina. As he heads to the airport to... Read more

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About It's Not You, It's Me

Javier is a 30-year-old surgeon who moonlights as a DJ and thinks he's ready to settle down. He and his girlfriend María plan to get married and start a new life in the United States, with María moving ahead to make contacts while Javier finishes things in Argentina. As he heads to the airport to join her, María calls and admits she's confused and has been seeing someone else, leaving Javier stuck between the life he planned and a sudden, painful rethink of his future. The film follows the fallout from that call, focusing on relationships, choices, and the awkward practicalities of adult love without revealing how it ends.

Released in 2004, the film was directed by Juan Taratuto and credited to Cecilia Dopazo as creator, featuring Diego Peretti as Javier and Soledad Villamil as María, with Cecilia Dopazo, Marcos Mundstock and Alberto Suárez in supporting roles. It’s an Argentine production rooted in contemporary city life.

Critics gave the movie mixed to positive responses, reflected in its modest average rating from viewers. Reviewers often highlighted the chemistry between Peretti and Villamil and noted the film’s focus on everyday misunderstandings rather than sweeping romance. Themes include commitment, the clash between career and personal life, and how small decisions can upend plans.

While it didn’t become a major international release, the film resonated with Argentine audiences who appreciated its realistic tone and relatable domestic situations. It sits among early 2000s local romantic comedies that traded glamour for plausible scenarios, and it helped reinforce Peretti’s reputation for playing likable, flawed protagonists.

Commercially, the picture had a limited run outside Argentina and didn’t post notable worldwide box office figures. Available information points to a primarily domestic audience and modest theatrical returns, with no widely reported international gross.

Details

Release Date
October 28, 2004
Runtime
1h 45m
User Ratings
51 votes
Type
Movie
Genres
Romance, Comedy
Country
Argentina
Studio
Rizoma Films
External Links
View on IMDB

Official Trailer

Cast

Diego Peretti

Diego Peretti

Javier

Soledad Villamil

Soledad Villamil

María

Cecilia Dopazo

Cecilia Dopazo

Julia

Marcos Mundstock

Marcos Mundstock

Analista

Alberto Suárez

Alberto Suárez

Jefe del Hospital

Hernán Jiménez

Hernán Jiménez

Luis

M

Mariana Briski

Laura

Roly Serrano

Roly Serrano

Etcheapre

Ricardo Merkin

Ricardo Merkin

Padre de Javier

Silvia Baylé

Silvia Baylé

Madre de Javier

Director: Juan Taratuto

Written by: Cecilia Dopazo

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Javier is a 30-year-old surgeon who moonlights as a DJ and thinks he's ready to settle down. He and his girlfriend María plan to get married and start a new life in the United States, with María moving ahead to make contacts while Javier finishes things in Argentina. As he heads to the airport to...

It's Not You, It's Me stars Diego Peretti, Soledad Villamil, Cecilia Dopazo, Marcos Mundstock, and Alberto Suárez.

It's Not You, It's Me was directed by Juan Taratuto.

It's Not You, It's Me was released on October 28, 2004.

It's Not You, It's Me is a Romance and Comedy film.

Diego Peretti plays Javier, a thirty-year-old surgeon who also works as a disc jockey in his free time. His plans to marry and move to the United States with his girlfriend drive the film's main conflict.

Soledad Villamil plays María, Javier's girlfriend who moves to the United States before him. While Javier is packing to join her, María calls to say she's confused and has been seeing someone else, which upends their plans.

No, It's Not You, It's Me is a fictional romantic comedy. The film follows invented characters and situations rather than a documented true account.

Yes, Cecilia Dopazo is credited as the creator of the film and she also appears on screen as Julia. She fulfills both creative and acting duties in the production.