Show Me Love
"I'd rather be happy now than in 25 years."
Two teenage girls live in a sleepy coastal town in Sweden, where days feel ordinary and the social code is strict. Elin is pretty, central to the local scene, and bored with the small town's rut. Agnes moves through school unseen, carrying a quiet ache and a secret crush that centers on Elin. As... Read more
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About Show Me Love
Two teenage girls live in a sleepy coastal town in Sweden, where days feel ordinary and the social code is strict. Elin is pretty, central to the local scene, and bored with the small town's rut. Agnes moves through school unseen, carrying a quiet ache and a secret crush that centers on Elin. As their paths cross, a fragile bond forms, built on shared glances, late night conversations, and the ache of growing up unseen. The town hums with gossip, rigid expectations, and the pressure to fit in, while Elin's status and Agnes's loneliness pull them toward choices that feel both risky and inevitable. The film follows their attempts to define themselves against norms, balancing friendship, desire, and first love. Set against a late 90s Swedish spring, it captures school corridors, neighborhood hangouts, and the pull of a first, true connection, all without glamorizing pain.
Directed by Lukas Moodysson, Show Me Love is his Swedish coming of age feature released in 1998. The film favors a naturalistic style and intimate camera work to tell a story rooted in ordinary life and urgent, personal feelings.
The film earned notable recognition in Sweden and abroad, with Guldbagge Award nominations highlighting Moodysson's direction and the performances of Alexandra Dahlström and Rebecka Liljeberg. Critics praised its frank portrayal of teenage life, helping Moodysson emerge as a distinctive new voice in European cinema.
The film is often cited for its unflinching look at adolescence and desire, and for bringing queer undercurrents in teen romance into mainstream discussion. Its stark realism and strong performances influenced later European indie dramas and inspired audiences to seek more diverse stories about youth.
Critics praised the film for its quiet, intimate mood and its precise focus on friendship, alienation, and unspoken love. It treats youth loneliness without melodrama, using small, specific details like school corridors and conversations to convey how hard it can be to reveal real feelings. It leaves you thinking about what it means to grow up and choose honesty over silence.
Details
- Release Date
- October 23, 1998
- Runtime
- 1h 29m
- User Ratings
- 575 votes
- Type
- Movie
- Genres
- Comedy, Romance, Drama
- Country
- Denmark
- Studio
- Memfis Film +3 more
- External Links
- View on IMDB
Official Trailer
Cast
Alexandra Dahlström
Elin
Rebecka Liljeberg
Agnes
Erica Carlson
Jessica
Stefan Hörberg
Markus
Josefine Nyberg
Viktoria
Ralph Carlsson
Agnes' Father Olof
Maria Hedborg
Agnes' Mother Karin
Axel Widegren
Agnes' Little Brother Oskar
Jill Ung
Elin's Mother Birgitta
Lisa Skagerstam
Elin's Friend Camilla
Director: Lukas Moodysson