The Mother
May, a retired grandmother, begins an intense affair with Darren, a man roughly half her age who is also involved with her daughter Paula. What begins as a sexual attraction quickly entangles family loyalties, awkward power dynamics, and the practical complications of overlapping relationships.... Read more
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About The Mother
May, a retired grandmother, begins an intense affair with Darren, a man roughly half her age who is also involved with her daughter Paula. What begins as a sexual attraction quickly entangles family loyalties, awkward power dynamics, and the practical complications of overlapping relationships. The film follows May and the people around her through tense meals, uneasy conversations, and quiet moments of care and resentment, keeping the focus on everyday consequences rather than sensational details. Small details underline how routines are strained, and the film prefers to show private consequences rather than sensationalize it.
Directed by Roger Michell and written by Hanif Kureishi, The Mother was released in 2003 as a British drama. Anne Reid, Daniel Craig, Peter Vaughan and Steven Mackintosh headline a small cast, giving the film an intimate, character driven feel.
It opened on a limited release, targeting arthouse audiences rather than mainstream ticket buyers. The movie's box office performance was modest, reflecting its adult themes and restrained marketing, though it found an audience on home video and through critical discussion.
The Mother stirred talk because of its frank depiction of desire between an older woman and a younger man, challenging common screen taboos about age and sexuality. Anne Reid's lead role drew attention for presenting an older female character with sexual agency, and Daniel Craig's appearance attracted additional notice overall.
Critics gave The Mother mixed reviews, reflected in its middling average rating from viewers. Praise focused on the performances and the film's willingness to portray loneliness, aging, desire, and family conflict without easy answers, while some reviewers found the narrative uneven or the tone uncomfortable. Some viewers praised its honesty.
Details
- Release Date
- November 14, 2003
- User Ratings
- 64 votes
- Type
- Movie
- Genres
- Drama, Romance
Official Trailer
Cast
Anne Reid
May
Daniel Craig
Darren
Peter Vaughan
Toots
Steven Mackintosh
Bobby
Cathryn Bradshaw
Paula
Anna Wilson-Jones
Helen
Danira Gović
Au Pair
Izabella Telezynska
Polish Cleaner
Oliver Ford Davies
Bruce
Jonah Coombes
Estate Agent
Director: Roger Michell
Written by: Hanif Kureishi